At MSJ, we believe surrogacy should be safe, ethical, and properly supported, with clarity at every step. That means helping families plan not just for the joyful moments, but for the practical realities that can arise in pregnancy, birth, and postnatal care. One of the
IVF has helped more people than ever start or grow their families, and the latest figures from the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA) make that unmistakably clear. Patient numbers have almost tripled over the last 30 years, rising from around 19,000 in the early 1990s
Two weeks ago in the House of Lords, peers held a timely debate on whether the UK’s laws regulating fertility treatment are still adequate for the world we live in today. The short version: the foundations are strong, but the system is showing its age, and
A positive surrogacy journey is built on trust, care, and the relationship between intended parents and their surrogate. In the UK especially, surrogacy is often relationship-led, so feeling connected, respected, and supported can make a meaningful difference for everyone involved. Every surrogacy journey is unique.
Bringing your baby into the world through surrogacy is one of those moments that can feel both deeply joyful and strangely administrative, because alongside the emotion, there are practical steps that need doing fairly quickly. One of the first is registering your baby’s birth. And if you’re
Parental order data tells an important story about how surrogacy is changing for UK intended parents. Over the last decade, the number of parental orders granted in England and Wales has risen significantly, reflecting growing use of surrogacy and broader access for more family types.According
Surrogacy is never a simple transaction. It’s a medical journey, a legal process, and, most importantly, a human story involving intended parents, a surrogate, and a child. Georgia (the country) is often promoted as a lower-cost destination for international surrogacy. For many intended parents, that affordability
There are moments in a journey, especially one as personal and transformative as ours, where recognition feels less like an accolade and more like a beacon. Today, we’re humbled and proud to share that our very own co-founders, Mike and Wes Johnson-Ellis, have been named
Building a family through surrogacy is never simple. The journey through egg donation in the UK and surrogacy in Mexico is filled with hope, heartbreak, and unexpected challenges,especially around the issue of donor consent. As the co-founder of My Surrogacy Journey, I’ve advocated for transparency and education.
Recognised Among UK's 50 Most Influential Champions of Inclusion and Diversity My Surrogacy Journey (MSJ) is proud to announce that Wes and Michael Johnson-Ellis Co-Founders and Co-CEO’s, have been named on The Diversity Power List 2025, a prestigious recognition honouring the UK's most influential leaders
By Kay King I’m 37 weeks pregnant, and I’m carrying a baby for a couple I describe to the world as my perfect match. That phrase, perfect match, might sound romantic or idealistic, but for me, it’s deeply rooted. The bond we’ve cultivated and the relationship we’ve
By Natalie Sutherland I'm Natalie Sutherland and I'm a family law solicitor specialising in surrogacy and fertility law and I'm a partner at International Family Law Group, based in St Paul's, London. I’ve been a family law solicitor for nearly 20 years and have acted for
By Sian Pages Hi everyone. I’m Sian. I live in rural Oxfordshire with my husband, our 11 year old son and our black Labrador. I started my company almost 8 years ago, after experiencing ‘burnout’ whilst working for the NHS. It was on holiday, when I made the
Surrogacy is a life-changing journey for intended parents and surrogates alike. Whether you’re an individual or a couple hoping to grow your family, the UK has a unique legal framework surrounding surrogacy that you need to navigate carefully. If you’re considering surrogacy in the UK,
Surrogacy is a deeply personal and complex journey that involves legal, medical, and emotional considerations. One of the most important steps in this process is screening, which ensures the well-being of both the surrogate and the intended parents. But why is screening necessary, and what
By Kay King, Head of Ethics A Personal Celebration Amid Controversy It is National Surrogacy Awareness Week 2025 and I look forward to this week every year as a celebration of the work of My Surrogacy Journey, my employer, and the many surrogate families that I have
Bringing a child into the world through surrogacy is a profound and life-changing experience. One of the most crucial decisions you will make along this journey is selecting the right donor. This choice not only impacts the genetics of your future child but also plays
I’m here to tell our story, a real-life version of events. There is often a lot of negativity around surrogacy but what I’m about to share is a version that is filled with love, connection and support. Two unsuccessful IVF cyclesThree frozen embryo transfersOne surgeryThree more
Fostering open and honest conversations can not only help you as Intended Parents feel more at ease but can also educate and inspire others to be more understanding and empathetic. Here, we share some hints and tips for IPs on navigating these conversations in a
By Hayley Aldis, Surrogate Co-ordinatoor. Surrogacy is full of big feelings — excitement, love, nerves… hope. We all go in with good intentions and a belief that things will go smoothly. And sometimes they do. But not always. Sometimes, even when you do everything “right,” the journey still
Welcome to the third and final part of our three part blog series on the topic of ‘When does a mother truly become a mother?’ Written and created by our Head of Ethics- Kay Read, this blog series was written in response to a long
Following on from our previous blog post, inspired by a recent BBC show which raised the debate about whether a surrogate is a mother, this blog explores that theme in more detail by examining the definition of the Maternal Role. It delves into the difference
Our founders Michael and Wes are no stranger to activism. Since they launched their first business venture together, TwoDadsUK® in 2017, life has become busier, and the people they support shows no sign of slowing down. Michael and Wes have spoken in parliament, advised on Department
Join us as you delve into part 1 of a 3-part blog series written by our Head of Ethics, Kay Read. This series was written in response to the debate on whether surrogates should be defined as ‘Mothers’. Kay speaks both as our Head of
Many of us have faced well-meaning but sometimes insensitive questions about family and parenthood. These comments can catch Intended Parents off-guard, leaving them at a loss for how to respond honestly about their journey. Instead of staying silent or sidestepping the topic, here are some
Date: 9th December 2024 A new partnership between My Surrogacy Journey and Avenues is improving the care offered to intended parents who want to grow their family. Summary: UK law currently states that if someone has chosen a surrogacy pathway then a referral must be made to an organisation
By Hayley Aldis , Surrogate Co-ordinator at My Surrogacy Journey Let’s rewind to maybe 2003. Possibly even 2002. I was 21 years old which made my sister Sophie 18/19. She, as many do during college and university years, started work at a local pub. On her
By Hayley Aldis, Surrogate co-ordinator at My Surrogacy Journey Support: (n) – a source of comfort or encouragement; (v) give comfort or encouragement to. ‘Support’ is a very personal term. What one person classes as supportive behaviour, another might find intrusive or inappropriate. Talking to a set of
By Mr. Rehan Salim, Medical Director, Lister Fertility Clinic at The Portland Hospital At Lister Fertility Clinic, we’re more than just a clinic - we’re a family dedicated to helping you build yours. We are proud to partner with TwoDadsUK, whose commitment to raising awareness of
By Manchester Fertility Your pathway to parenthood is unique, as is how you feel about starting your family through surrogacy. Some people will always know they need to use a surrogate, such as same-sex couples, others may be considering surrogacy after struggling to conceive. However you feel
By James Nicopoullos, Medical Director Lister Fertility Clinic At Lister Fertility Clinic, our dedication to family building through surrogacy is shared with partners like My Surrogacy Journey (MSJ). Together, we strive to provide the highest standard of care, compassion, and innovation for intended parents, surrogates, and
Soho Sessions: Intended Parents Edition
We’ve kept this evening intentionally small. There’s no stage, no sales pitch, just an honest conversation at Cecconi’s, Shoreditch.
Join us for an evening at Cecconi’s Shoreditch on Wednesday 14th October 2026, 6:00 – 8:00pm (BST).
📅Date: Wednesday 14th October 2026
⏰Time: 6:00 – 8:00pm
📍Location: Cecconi’s Shoreditch, 58-60 Redchurch Street, Shoreditch, London, E2 7DP
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