What is Membership?

Our Membership has been designed to be as individual as your Surrogacy journey. Which is why if your journey has already begun and you’re experiencing serious FOMO, that’s OK, we don’t blame you! We can also create hybrid Memberships that are designed around a journey that’s already departed, that lacks our support and benefits. Speak to us today


Surrogates are Members too. Have you been considering becoming a Surrogate? Unsure where to even begin or how much support you need? We wanted to ensure our membership is balanced and tailored around your journey too, which is why it’s packed full of legitimate, essential membership benefits. Over 50 of them, to be precise. We’ve thought of everything to support you, your partner if you have one, and of course – your family. Check the Membership infographic for more information and become a surrogate with My Surrogacy Journey.

Register to become a surrogate!

Surrogate Matching & Support

  • Getting started

    • My Surrogacy Journey (MSJ) welcome pack with tailored Surrogate information to get you started on your journey, whether you’re new or an experienced Surrogate
    • Surrogate profile building assistance programme
    • Surrogacy in the UK Surrogate information pack
    • Surrogates expenses explained programme
    • MSJ and the expectations of a surrogate explained
    • Relationship management – how to maintain a balanced relationship between all parties
    • Understanding the journey options
    • Dedicated MSJ Surrogate APP – coming soon
    • Surrogate health screen
    • Surrogate and Partner Identity & Basic DBS check through Experian
    • IP & Surrogate matching service
  • The Legals

    • 1 hour legal consultation with a surrogacy legal expert (M)
    • Will writing service (M)
    • Parental order support service including CAFCASS process (M)
    • Fertility/pregnancy rights in the workplace helpline (M)
    • Intention agreement support (M)
  • Emotional Support

    • 1 hour virtual confidential clinical consultation
    • Virtual sessions with your MSJ Co-ordinator
    • 5 hours of virtual session with a BICA accredited specialist counsellor (M)
    • 2 hour virtual session with your Fertility Mentor (M)
  • Trying to conceive, Clinics & Science

    • NACE24 – non-invasive prenatal test for Surrogate once pregnant, detects chromosomal aneuploidies in all 24 chromosomes as well as the sex of the baby (P)
    • Love Honey gift card (M)
    • Injection support and treatment support from a fertility nurse
    • E-Fertility nurse support throughout
    • 2 virtual consultations (1 hour each) with a specialist fertility dietitian
  • Practical Support

    • Dedicated Surrogate helpline
    • Dedicated Surrogate Co-ordinator
    • Access to MSJ closed Surrogate support groups
    • Access to experienced Surrogates for support and information
    • Access to dedicated Surrogate document library
    • Access to surrogate specific educational library
    • MSJ information event – Surrogates
    • Access to regular webinars
    • 2 years life insurance (P)
    • Access to EngagedMD consents and information platform (M)
    • Membership to Merlin pass for a family of 4 (1 year) or weekend break (P)
  • Pregnancy

    • NHS birthing preparation, access to all NHS trust surrogacy policies (P)
    • Surrogate specific yoga and meditation classes (P)
    • 2 hour virtual hypnobirthing session with The Mindful Birth Group (P)
    • E-Midwife support throughout (P)
    • Information on nutrition and healthy lifestyle during pregnancy (P)
  • Birth & Post Birth

    • Access to a lactation specialist for support and advice with pumping and collecting colostrum (P)
    • Preparing for the birth and post birth programme – 5 hours of virtual Doula sessions (M)
    • Ongoing advice and support for registration of birth
    • Online weight management support programme (M)
    • Postnatal support programme (M)
    • Surrogate specific yoga and meditation classes (P)