What is Membership with My Surrogacy Journey ?

Our Membership has been designed to be as individual as your Surrogacy journey. Which is why if your journey has already begun and you’re experiencing serious FOMO, that’s OK, we don’t blame you! We can also create hybrid Memberships that are designed around a journey that’s already departed, that lacks our support and benefits. Speak to us today.


Intended Parents

The only UK not for profit Surrogacy organisation with completely tailored Intended Parent membership, based on your relationship status, sexual orientation, and whether you complete your journey in the UK or abroad. With over 50 benefits created specifically around you and your emotional and practical needs. We’re with you throughout the entire journey and beyond into parenthood. Check the Membership infographic for more information. With additional Bolt on memberships available for ‘Surrogate Matching & Support’ and ‘Known Egg Donor Matching & Support’. It’s all about our Members.

Intended Parents Concierge
Member benefits

  • Getting started

    • My Surrogacy Journey (MSJ) welcome pack
    • IP Profile building assistance programme
    • MSJ dedicated APP – Coming Soon
    • Introduction to your MSJ Co-ordinator
    • Budget Planning Support Session

  • Trying to conceive, Clinics & Science

    • Carrier testing – CGT PLUS – analyses 450 genes related to 550 diseases (for two Intended Parents)
    • ExSeed home sperm testing kit
    • Fertility Clinic treatment comparison
    • Surrogacy & Fertility explained programme
    • Irish and US/CAN Clinic matching service and co-ordination
    • Sperm / Embryo Cryo shipping co-ordination (cost of shipping is not included)
    • Guidance on quarantine and sperm/embryo cryopreservation
    • Guidance on donor matching and the egg donation process
    • Access to EngagedMD consents and information platform
    • Future embryo management support
    • 2 virtual consultations (1 hour each) with a specialist fertility dietitian
    • E-Fertility nurse support throughout

  • Emotional Support

    • 1 hour confidential clinical consultation
    • Virtual sessions with your MSJ Co-ordinator
    • 4 hours of virtual sessions with a BICA accredited specialist counsellor
    • 2 hours of virtual sessions with your Fertility Mentor
    • Genetic counselling

  • Pregnancy

    • International birthing preparation programme
    • Postnatal educational sessions
    • 1 hour virtual birthing session with The Mindful Birthing Group
    • Baby first aid class
    • Baby First Aid provided by Mini First Aid
    • E-midwife support throughout by a qualified Midwife

  • The Legals

    • Access to Irish Surrogacy specialist via the MSJ directory
    • Free Legal Consultation – US/Canadian Law – US/Canadian Specialist Surrogacy Attorney
    • Free Legal Consultation – Gaining Passport – US/Canadian Specialist Surrogacy Attorney
    • Irish Court Process, legal relationship of parentage, guardianship and custody of the child support

  • Birth & Post Birth

    • Preparing for baby programme – 5 hours of virtual Doula sessions
    • Preparing for baby Programme – Abroad, travelling home and settling home
    • Essential equipment list for your new arrival
    • Post birth Healthcare Support service
    • IP and newborn baby gift

  • Practical Support

    • Access to MSJ Document Template Library
    • MSJ Co-ordinator
    • Educational content designed to guide and educate you at every stage of your journey
    • Dedicated IP helpline
    • Access to a carefully created Directory of products and professional services that you will need throughout your journey, we’ve done the research for you
    • Access to MSJ closed FB groups
    • Access to monthly MSJ webinars
    • Support your surrogate package
    • International Surrogacy Insurance – 1 Hour Consultation
    • Tickets to The Modern Family Show
    • 2 years membership to Donor Conception Network
    • Travel Concierge Service
    • MSJ Passport

  • Future Families

    • Parenting discount directory
    • New arrival gift list